Sunday, March 5, 2017

A641.8.3.RB - Personal Balance Sheet

All leaders have strengths and weaknesses, they are human after all, the key to being a great leader is knowing how to accentuate your strengths and compensate for your weaknesses.  Richard Branson believes that "the art of delegation is one of the key skills any entrepreneur must master” (Fenoli, 2014), through this delegation he has stated that he doesn’t need to be and expert in every area of business he just needs to hire people who are.  This seems to be a smart way to conduct business and run a company, one person is not going to have all the answers, though many leaders try to achieve that, when a leader knows and understands their weaknesses they are able to rely on those around them to fill in the gaps.

My distinctive strength is that I tend to perform well under pressure; I make better decisions when pressured than when I have time to think about it.  I have quick reactions and am able to find solutions to time sensitive issues.  In the past, others have sought out my advice and help when faced with crisis knowing I will be able to find a solution.  I tend to put just enough pressure on myself to increase my focus but not enough to be extremely stressful.

My potential strength is empowering others.  Inspiring and empowering others has always been my passion, which is why I entered the teaching profession.  Watching employees learn and grow is one of the most rewarding parts of being a leader.  Northouse (2016) defined empowering as allowing followers the freedom to be independent, make decisions on their own, and be self-sufficient.  As a leader, taking the opportunity to mold your employees into successful individuals is extremely satisfying.

My Enduring Dispositions that support me are determination and caring.  I have always been a determined person; once I start something I will always see it through to the end no matter the outcome.  This has helped pull me through many difficult tasks at work; I have a hard time giving up on things so I tend to find a way to drive myself to the end.  I am a caring person by nature, which can be an asset as a leader as long as it doesn’t cloud one’s judgment.  So far for me, it has helped more than it has hindered my leadership skills.        

As for my weaknesses, I have a few I know I need to work on such as being and staying positive, the way I handle stress, and not being overly emotional.  My weakness, the thing I know I don’t do well and I want to do better, is my tendency to have a pessimistic outlook.   I have always looked at the negative side of situations.  This served me well in the past as I was prepared for the worst that helped me cope when it did occur and when anything positive happened it was a huge relief, however, I understand that it is not a healthy way to live.  I am working on finding the positive side of situations.  Fredrickson (2013) pointed out a single day in which negative emotion prevails has the countervailing force of three good days” (p. 6).  Positivity is something I need to work on. 

The weakness I want to change is the way I handle stress.  On the outside, I am controlled and put together, but on the inside, I am second guessing myself and holding on to certain levels of guilt.  When I am extremely stressed and do not have the opportunity to walk away and calm down, I tend to become overly focused on the issue at hand, which results in tunnel vision.  This causes me to dwell on every little decision I make which usually results in my overthinking a situation and not making the best decision possible.  When I have a complex problem that I need to think about I should use what Whetten and Cameron (2011) would describe as a reactive strategy, which are applied on-the-spot remedies to temporarily relieve the effects of stress, and take some time alone to process the information before either presenting it to others or asking for help.  This would help me to handle situations better. 

My enduring disposition that sometimes gets in my way is my tendency to be overly emotional in certain situations.  I tend to become overly emotionally involved and that has gotten in my way in the past.   I am aware that I need to work on it but it is sometimes too late before I catch myself.  As Boyatzis and McKee (2005) indicated, “resonant leaders manage their emotions well and read individuals and groups accurately” (p. 22). 

Most people are aware of the things they do well, some are even aware of the things they don’t do well, it is taking the time to improve these things that can be difficult.   People often have a difficult time admitting they need to work on certain skills; to some, it is a form of weakness.  I see it as an opportunity to find new ways to become a better person, which will lead to becoming a better leader.  A great leader is always improving on their strengths and finding ways to compensate or counteract their weaknesses. 

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